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Post by Mike Harding on Sept 11, 2024 15:19:27 GMT 10
People often look at my nomad lifestyle and say: "You should get a dog."
Don't misunderstand me - I like dogs, I really like dogs and dogs like me and I'd love one as a companion again. They are very sociable to humans, they are fun to be with, they ask little of a person, they sense your feelings, they will love you, I firmly believe, and I would dearly like to be the carer for one again - but I won't.
Throughout my life I have cared for others; childhood was difficult and I carried far more responsibility than a child should; I married early and took on the responsibility for a wife and, later, children. I did my best, kept a family together, provided nurture, care and good wealth. I looked after everyone and think I did a pretty good job as I look back at how my children have progressed. But I won't get a dog.
The reason I won't is that I am done with responsibility. All my life I have had to care for others, comfort them, provide for them, shelter them and I've had enough of it. Now, nearing the end of my life, I just want to care for me and that is why, with sadness, I won't get a dog.
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Post by arewelost on Sept 11, 2024 16:27:12 GMT 10
I have the same feeling as you in regards to fondness of dogs. I have a few over the years and you do get attached to them. I remember the sadness when two of them met with some unknown foul play (both collars undone on the ground and no dogs). Then making the decision to end one's life when she was blind, mostly deaf and incontinent.
I don't think of the need to care for them and support them. To me that is small compared to the benefit. But I won't have one again because that would mean I would always need to consider the dog. I used to spend most alternate weekends away ... no dogs allowed. In the van, no National Parks and numerous other places. I could decide I wanted to fly somewhere for a week. Damn, need to find a solution for Fido?
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Post by magnarc on Sept 11, 2024 16:44:14 GMT 10
People often look at my nomad lifestyle and say: "You should get a dog." Don't misunderstand me - I like dogs, I really like dogs and dogs like me and I'd love one as a companion again. They are very sociable to humans, they are fun to be with, they ask little of a person, they sense your feelings, they will love you, I firmly believe, and I would dearly like to be the carer for one again - but I won't. Throughout my life I have cared for others; childhood was difficult and I carried far more responsibility than a child should; I married early and took on the responsibility for a wife and, later, children. I did my best, kept a family together, provided nurture, care and good wealth. I looked after everyone and think I did a pretty good job as I look back at how my children have progressed. But I won't get a dog. The reason I won't is that I am done with responsibility. All my life I have had to care for others, comfort them, provide for them, shelter them and I've had enough of it. Now, nearing the end of my life, I just want to care for me and that is why, with sadness, I won't get a dog. Whoops, don't know what went wrong. Lost the post somewhere!!!! (I am an old bloke!)
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