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Post by Mike Harding on Nov 26, 2023 12:19:35 GMT 10
I've been in a philosophical mode for a couple of days; I'm about 70 years old and well aware my time is limited - another 10 years maybe, perhaps less - and that's OK I'm comfortable with the prospect of death. I have lived a very varied and active life and have few regrets of significance. One of the things I have come to realise with clarity these past few years is that me and my life mean nothing. I may think I'm important and perhaps my mum and dad once did but I'm not, I'm simply one of six billion people on this planet who will soon be gone and forgotten. I am very pragmatic about life; I firmly believe we are here simply to make better babies, as evolution requires of us. Once we have done that and raised them we're of no use and simply a waste of resources - in the eyes of evolution. My question is: If you could live a (not your) life again and retain your current knowledge bank would you do things significantly differently? I think I would. Looking back I believe I tried too hard to please other (elder) people when I was young, I tried to make them accept me into their respected social group, it didn't work well Now; I'd say to them "Bollocks! This is me, take me or leave me." Also I'm not convinced I'd conceive and raise a family again - a massive commitment of a huge chunk of one's life and I'm not convinced it's worth it. I'm not asking if you would buy a Toyota instead of a Nissan next time around but rather whether you would change your entire perspective upon life.
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Post by pete on Nov 26, 2023 19:39:33 GMT 10
Good question Mike. I would certainly do things different. Retaining my current knowledge bank would allow the knowledge to engineer the outcomes I would like for certain enjoyments at a much earlier age. We only have a certain amount of time to make this happen. These wanted outcomes have changed over time, so having the required tools upfront could make the second coming a great improvement.
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Post by toeknee on Nov 26, 2023 20:04:25 GMT 10
I would be happy to live the same life
Do all the same things
But try and not make as many mistakes
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Post by peter57 on Mar 21, 2024 17:07:50 GMT 10
A fair and interesting question Mike. If I had a life to do over I would just lease multiple women instead of marrying only one, that was my business accountants idea.
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Post by magnarc on Mar 22, 2024 8:42:04 GMT 10
As an "old" duffer when I look back on my life there are more than a few things I would change. In my younger days I caused a fair bit of grief to my family. A tearaway with an attitude. Several (minor) scrapes involving the law usually after drinking too much, but there were bright spots along the way.
Like you Mike I have no fear of death. I have been blessed with overall good health (strong robust Fenland genes Mike??)
At eighteen knowing that I would have to do nasho, I allowed a smooth talking recruitment sergeant to talk me into signing up for 3 yrs instead of the required 2 thus having better pay. An added plus was that I could join the regiment of my choosing. This decision was one of my better ones once I got over the initial shock of my first meeting with RSM (Jock) Lipp. The army made a man of me.
All in all I have had a good go at this life, there are regrets of course, because we humans are far from perfect. The way things are going in the world today, I am very happy that I was born when I was. Not given to pessimism as a rule, but, there are dark clouds everywhere I look, and I fear for the future generations to come. Stay safe everyone and keep on doing the things that make you happy.
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